Actions Speak Louder Than Words; A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words; You Still Can’t See What I Am Saying

If actions speak louder than words and a picture is worth a thousand… does it help anyone see what you’re saying when you communicate without them?

Sometimes, no matter how loud you shout, you won’t be heard. Actions can be misinterpreted, and pictures don’t always tell the true story. Only you can tell the truth of the tale, and at times pain of truth hurts, deeper than you think you can bear. Face it and start a fresh chapter.

For far too many, the end looks brighter than the darkness in their means to get there; Life is not easy, happy can be very hard to find; Loneliness happens in a crowd of family or friends, as easily as it would on a deserted island.

…AND…

When you end your own story, it does not end; Others will finish writing it for you and not in the way you felt it. No matter how far you fall or how high you fly, you can’t hide from yourself. Only you can can write the next chapter in your story; the way YOU WOULD WANT IT READ!

Everyone knows someone who suffers from unspoken pains. Addictions come in as many flavors as ice cream; mental health issues number higher than TIME and LIFE magazine combined. If you can’t make them hear you, show them what you mean it in any way they will listen. Only when the absolute truth can be seen can the healing begin; excuses can start from real reasons and reasons become an excuse. When you love someone enough to risk anything to help them, do not let them suffer in silence; when you see them scream, see what they are saying. When the truth hurts so bad you cannot face it, do not turn away, accept it and help shoulder the burden, even if it makes them hate you for daring to help. When you are up on the edge for so long you can’t find the way down, or in the darkness long enough you can’t remember light; know the deepest darkness is broken by even the smallest spark and that over the edge, or on rock bottom, it’s not too late to plant your feet and follow a new path.

I AM NOT ALONE ; YOU ARE NOT ALONE

THEY ARE NOT ALONE ; WE ARE NOT ALONE

A moment can be fleeting, a movement can last forever. Write an adventure you want to remember.
If you are reading this, your story just began; make it an adventure you WANT TO remember.

 

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For those who understand the reason why; I hope you can understand what I am saying, I love you

 

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The Marijuana-Logues Straight Dope Video Interview Chronic-al

New Media Video: The Marijuana-Logues Straight Dope Video Interview Chronic-al 

Arj Barker, Doug Benson, and Tony Camin share everything about pot (that they can remember) in their book, THE MARIJUANA-LOGUES. These fellows are blunt about their chronic addiction. Tags: addiction chronic marijuana weed video

What Happens When You Smoke Cigarettes, What Happens When You Stop Smoking and Why it’s So Hard to Quit Smoking Cigarettes.

What Happens When You Keep Smoking?

What Happens When You Quit Smoking?

Stop Smoking Effect Timeline

When smokers quit — What are the benefits over time?

  • 20 minutes after quitting: Your heart rate and blood pressure drops.

(Effect of Smoking on Arterial Stiffness and Pulse Pressure Amplification, Mahmud, A, Feely, J. 2003. Hypertension:41:183.)

  • 12 hours after quitting: The carbon monoxide level in your blood drops to normal.

(US Surgeon General’s Report, 1988, p. 202)

  • 2 weeks to 3 months after quitting: Your circulation improves and your lung function increases.

(US Surgeon General’s Report, 1990, pp.193, 194,196, 285, 323)

  • 1 to 9 months after quitting: Coughing and shortness of breath decrease; cilia (tiny hair-like structures that move mucus out of the lungs) regain normal function in the lungs, increasing the ability to handle mucus, clean the lungs, and reduce the risk of infection.

(US Surgeon General’s Report, 1990, pp. 285-287, 304)

  • 1 year after quitting: The excess risk of coronary heart disease is half that of a smoker’s.

(US Surgeon General’s Report, 1990, p. vi)

  • 5 years after quitting: Your stroke risk is reduced to that of a non-smoker 5 to 15 years after quitting.

(US Surgeon General’s Report, 1990, p. vi)

  • 10 years after quitting: The lung cancer death rate is about half that of a continuing smoker’s. The risk of cancer of the mouth, throat, esophagus, bladder, cervix, and pancreas decrease, too.

(US Surgeon General’s Report, 1990, pp. vi, 131, 148, 152, 155, 164,166)

  • 15 years after quitting: The risk of coronary heart disease is the same as a non-smoker’s.

(US Surgeon General’s Report, 1990, p. vi) Immediate rewards of quitting Kicking the tobacco habit offers some benefits that you’ll notice right away and some that will develop over time. These rewards can improve your day-to-day life a great deal.

  • your breath smells better
  • stained teeth get whiter
  • bad smelling clothes and hair go away
  • your yellow fingers and fingernails disappear
  • food tastes better
  • your sense of smell returns to normal
  • everyday activities no longer leave you out of breath (such as climbing stairs or light housework)

Cost The prospect of better health is a major reason for quitting, but there are other reasons, too. Smoking is expensive. It isn’t hard to figure out how much you spend on smoking: multiply how much money you spend on tobacco every day by 365 (days per year). The amount may surprise you. Now multiply that by the number of years you have been using tobacco and that amount will probably shock you. Multiply the cost per year by 10 (for the next 10 years) and ask yourself what you would rather do with that much money. And this doesn’t include other possible costs, such as higher costs for health and life insurance, and likely health care costs due to tobacco-related problems. Social acceptance Smoking is less socially acceptable now than it was in the past. Almost all workplaces now have some type of smoking rules. Some employers even prefer to hire non-smokers. Studies show smoking employees cost businesses more because they are out sick more. Employees who are ill more often than others can raise an employer’s need for expensive short-term replacement workers. They can increase insurance costs both for other employees and for the employer, who often pays part of the workers’ insurance premiums. Smokers in a building also can increase the maintenance costs of keeping odors down, since residue from cigarette smoke clings to carpets, drapes, and other fabrics. Landlords may choose not to rent to smokers since maintenance costs and insurance rates may rise when smokers live in buildings. Friends may ask you not to smoke in their homes or cars. Public buildings, concerts, and even sporting events are largely smoke-free. And more and more communities are restricting smoking in all public places, including restaurants and bars. Like it or not, finding a place to smoke can be a hassle. Smokers may also find their prospects for dating or romantic involvement, including marriage, are largely limited to other smokers, who make up less than 20% of the adult population. Health of others Smoking not only harms your health but it hurts the health of those around you. Exposure to secondhand smoke (also called environmental tobacco smoke or passive smoking) includes exhaled smoke as well as smoke from burning cigarettes. Studies have shown that secondhand smoke causes thousands of deaths each year from lung cancer and heart disease in healthy non-smokers. If a mother smokes, there is a higher risk of her baby developing asthma in childhood, especially if she smoked while she was pregnant. Smoking is also linked to sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) and low-birth weight infants. Babies and children raised in a household where there is smoking have more ear infections, colds, bronchitis, and other lung and breathing problems than children from non-smoking families. Secondhand smoke can also cause eye irritation, headaches, nausea, and dizziness. Setting an example If you have children, you probably want to set a good example for them. When asked, nearly all smokers say they don’t want their children to smoke, but children whose parents smoke are more likely to start smoking themselves. You can become a good role model for them by quitting now.

How To Quit Smoking.

Why is it so hard to quit smoking?

Mark Twain said, "Quitting smoking is easy. I’ve done it a thousand times." Maybe you’ve tried to quit, too. Why is quitting and staying quit hard for so many people? The answer is nicotine.

Nicotine Nicotine is a drug found naturally in tobacco. It is highly addictive — as addictive as heroin or cocaine. Over time, a person becomes physically and emotionally addicted to (dependent on) nicotine. Studies have shown that smokers must deal with both the physical and psychological (mental) dependence to quit and stay quit. How nicotine gets in, where it goes, and how long it stays When you inhale smoke, nicotine is carried deep into your lungs. There it is absorbed quickly into the bloodstream and carried throughout your body. Nicotine affects many parts of the body, including your heart and blood vessels, your hormones, your metabolism, and your brain. Nicotine can be found in breast milk and even in mucus from the cervix of a female smoker. During pregnancy, nicotine freely crosses the placenta and has been found in amniotic fluid and the umbilical cord blood of newborn infants. Several different factors can affect how long it takes the body to remove nicotine and its by-products. In most cases, regular smokers will still have nicotine or its by-products, such as cotinine, in their bodies for about 3 to 4 days after stopping. How nicotine hooks smokers Nicotine produces pleasant feelings that make the smoker want to smoke more. It also acts as a kind of depressant by interfering with the flow of information between nerve cells. As the nervous system adapts to nicotine, smokers tend to increase the number of cigarettes they smoke. This, in turn, increases the amount of nicotine in the smoker’s blood. After a while, the smoker develops a tolerance to the drug. Tolerance means that it takes more nicotine to get the same effect that the smoker used to get from smaller amounts. This leads to an increase in smoking over time. The smoker reaches a certain nicotine level and then keeps smoking to maintain this level of nicotine. In fact, nicotine inhaled in cigarette smoke reaches the brain faster than drugs that enter the body intravenously (IV). Nicotine withdrawal symptoms can lead quitters back to smoking When smokers try to cut back or quit, the lack of nicotine leads to withdrawal symptoms. Withdrawal is both physical and mental. Physically, the body reacts to the absence of nicotine. Mentally, the smoker is faced with giving up a habit, which calls for a major change in behavior. The physical and mental both must be addressed for the quitting process to work. Those who have smoked regularly for a few weeks or longer, and suddenly stop using tobacco or greatly reduce the amount smoked, will have withdrawal symptoms. Symptoms usually start within a few hours of the last cigarette and peak about 2 to 3 days later when most of the nicotine and its by-products are out of the body. Withdrawal symptoms can last for a few days to up to several weeks. Withdrawal symptoms can include any of the following:

  • dizziness (which may only last 1 to 2 days after quitting)
  • depression
  • feelings of frustration, impatience, and anger
  • anxiety
  • irritability
  • sleep disturbances, including having trouble falling asleep and staying asleep, and having bad dreams or even nightmares
  • trouble concentrating
  • restlessness
  • headaches
  • tiredness
  • increased appetite

These symptoms can lead the smoker to start smoking cigarettes again to boost blood levels of nicotine back to a level where there are no symptoms. (For information on coping with withdrawal, see the section, "How to quit.") Smoking also makes your body get rid of certain drugs faster than usual. When you quit smoking, it changes the way your body handles some medicines. Ask your doctor if any medicines you take regularly need to be checked or changed after you quit. Tagged: addiction health smoking quit-smoking stop-smoking

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